Be like the people you work with
Just recently, I turned down what was promised to be a full-time job (an incentive I do not want) by a client who needed some rushed designing done. Things didn’t go well with this client because he isn’t the type of person I want to be like, although I love his product. Which leads to the topic of this post…

Credit: flickr.com/danzden
It’s hard to say this and expect everyone to heed my advice, especially given my age and the decades I’ve been in the workforce [sarcasm], but please work with people who you want to be like. You have no excuse to let your life be sent down a path you didn’t want because of the people you surround yourself with.
Seth covered this on his blog just today and this bit really stuck out:
Years ago, when I had ten people working for me at my book packaging company, one client accounted for about half our revenue. They were difficult, constantly threatening litigation, sending lawyers to otherwise productive meetings, questioning our ethics and more. It was clearly the culture of their organization to be at war. So I fired them. I gave them the rights and walked away, even though it meant a huge hit to our organization. Why do it? Because if we had stuck with them, it would have changed who we were, who we hired and how we marketed ourselves going forward. We would have had a lifetime of this.
Pay note to the part in bold. It’s the exact same idea behind hiring employees who are better than you are at their tasks. It’s embracing your own brand equity and investing in it rather than compromising your sense of integrity because it pays the bills better than the other guys.
I think people let themselves work with people they hate or don’t get along with or who would change them into someone they don’t want to be because it can be uncomfortable. Uncomfortable not knowing when you’ll find the job that’s right for you. Uncomfortable turning down work that, according to the books, looks like a great deal. Don’t compromise your happiness people. That’s all you’ve got when it comes down to it. Seriously.







